Tufts Medical Startup & Executive Coaching

Ignore the mind game of starting an online business at your peril. Business knowledge may seem the only thing you need, when in truth there is far more to strain every aspect of your character and determination. New software quirks and laptop and PC handling issues can drive you to distraction. Yet stick at it, with an attitude of ‘giving back to the internet’ and watch success unfold.

Frequently the person failing to get started blames the business system or process they have bought. It is accused of being unworkable or even a scam. This is almost never true! The proof of achievable success as a commercial model, whatever successful money making process it is, can stare us in the face. Yet some of us still seem to be unable to replicate it, no matter how hard we seem to try.

The truth is that it is the mindset of the new online business owner which hasn’t prepared us fully for what is involved. It is our mindset which causes our attempt to fail, not the formula.

Cognitive Thinking specialists are in no doubt that it is just the same as New Year Resolutions! We make them and then rarely do not keep to them for more than a short time. Why? Because we most often don’t make the goal or resolution in the right way mentally to make it happen. The sad result: we just bail out.

Is that mental condition curable? Are our minds capable of being redirected by us to achieve internet success? Absolutely!

It is not just hoping or praying it will happen – there’s more to it than that. Our undisciplined minds, left to their own devices, can so easily sabotage our hopes and dreams. The first trick is to make our project an unassailable commitment.

Many of the best and most successful online business innovators realize this potential feature within us all. Why? They had to go through the emotion pain barrier just the same. It varies how much these successful people will offer cognitive support assistance alongside providing their product.

It is essential that we are pointed towards opportunities not only that are manifestly successful, if run effectively, but where the business entrepreneurs concerned are aware of the need to help you with your mental inhibitions as well as their business process. More than that, make sure they are personally contactable by phone or personal email.

I want to see you convert your hopes and dreams into real life goals which lead to achievements and success. No hypnosis! No Mumbo Jumbo! Just simple processes you can learn to apply yourself.

Rule 1. Form a clear picture in your mind of your successful internet business and why you want that. Decide on the expertise you have to bring to the internet and add value.

Rule 2. Learn everything you can in relevant to Rule 1. Remind yourself over and over: the internet may seem to offer immediate solutions, but launching a successful business on line is going to take a disproportionate amount of energy, commitment, education, trial and error to start with.

Rule 3. You are not stupid but you can soon believe you are. You wouldn’t be reading this if you were. Everything is made to sound so simple – and sometimes it can take hours to get the hang of it yourself. Then as you do it over and over in minutes, you forget yourself how you couldn’t get it to start with.

Rule 4. You will be swamped with seemingly irresistible opportunities and attractive diversions. If you do not remember Rule 1 and remain focused you will get drowned in your own confusion. So stay disciplined.

Rule 5. Remember, success won’t just happen. It needs hard work. Online business is not a quick fix. It can take days ‘even weeks of hard graft. Take it a step at a time.

Rule 6. Congratulate yourself as you master something new and then take on the next challenge strengthened by it.

Around 60% of children under the age of 18 will experience a traumatic event and require effective trauma intervention. This is a shocking statistic and makes the need for an effective treatment plan glaringly obvious. There are many trauma interventions ranging from trauma-focused cognitive behavior therapy, narrative exposure work, emotional regulation therapy, eye movement integration, and pharmaceutical treatment options available. But there does not seem to be a standard and efficacy-proven method for assisting children who have been traumatized and one wonders which of these interventions are actually beneficial in treating children who have been exposed to trauma.

The identification of post-traumatic disorder is clear – the person needs to have elements of re-experiencing the event, such as nightmares or flashbacks, avoidance needs to be present such as avoiding going to school or getting in a car (if an accident has happened) and they need to by hypervigilant in some way with signs of anxiety or agitation. These symptoms need to be present for over a month for a diagnosis of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) to be made. Some children are absolutely fine in the long term while others develop traumatic stress syndromes and become at risk for depression, conduct disorder, substance abuse, and suicidality. There are interventions that act as a ‘debriefing’ after the traumatic experience that aim to alleviate and prevent a post-traumatic reaction and some studies have proven the efficacy of this type of intervention. However, there is an on-going debate as to whether immediate intervention is beneficial and if not, what method of intervention would be most beneficial in treating symptoms of trauma exposure.

A comparative effectiveness meta-analysis was conducted looking at 21 trials and one cohort study that explored the interventions available for children exposed to trauma other than abuse or domestic violence. The findings found that cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), or interventions that included elements of CBT were the most effective in assisting children with or without symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder. As a matter of fact, the review showed that children who had received trauma-focused CBT were actually less likely to be diagnosed with PTSD. This illustrates that intervention before the diagnosis of PTSD may be beneficial especially where this intervention includes trauma-focused CBT. Furthermore, trauma-focused CBT was also the only intervention that effectively eased symptoms of anxiety. Interestingly, none of the pharmaceutical treatments were effective in alleviating symptoms of trauma exposure. This is surprising as antidepressants are often used in the treatment of PTSD-related symptoms of depression and anxiety.

In conclusion, this review shows that psychotherapeutic interventions are beneficial in assisting children who have been exposed to traumatic events, but it also highlights the lack of information about evidence-based methods of intervening. As a result there really is a need to build and improve upon the evidence-based interventions that will benefit those children who have been exposed to trauma.

You need psychological counseling only because you are an ignorant human being. You have also inherited a primitive and absurd content in the biggest part of your brain. You won’t be able to overcome all the psychological problems generated by the anti-conscience, your wild conscience by yourself. The unconscious mind that produces your dreams works like a psychotherapist because you need guidance.

Through dream therapy you will understand the mistakes you are making, and stop doing what provokes more problems in your life. Most dreams don’t have a pleasant aspect because they reflect the dangerous fight between your human conscience and your anti-conscience.

Dreams give you lessons about your mind and behavior in a symbolic form. You make many mistakes in life because you are influenced by your anti-conscience. Your human conscience is one-sided and under-developed. This means that even your human conscience is deficient.

Your dreams show you the bitter truth that you cannot see because you are too ignorant. The unconscious mind that produces your dreams has a saintly character that proves its divine origin. You’ll verify by yourself that the unconscious mind will teach you how to be good. You’ll remember many of the lessons of your religion. All religions teach us a part of a very complex truth.

We are wild animals and we make many mistakes because we are violent and unfair. We are constantly influenced by the anti-conscience, which is our absurd primitive conscience. It can only lead us to terror and despair. This is the bitter truth hidden under our tendency to prefer what is bad and immoral. We are merely under-developed primates that keep making mistakes in life, and then suffering due to their consequences.

The unconscious mind protects the human side of our conscience from the anti-conscience’s attacks, and helps our human conscience win the battle against the primitive conscience we have inherited in our brain and psyche. The anti-conscience belongs to us, but its personality is abnormal. We have to transform the absurd tendencies we have inherited because of the anti-conscience, into human behavior. In other words, we cannot kill our wild side. We must transform it into human consciousness.

This is a very difficult mission. The anti-conscience occupies the biggest part of our brain. The unconscious mind helps us fight against a very strong enemy.

Therefore, when you see an important dream symbol in a dream, like the snake, you must stop caring about your routine and first of all care about your safety. The snake represents a very unpleasant experience that will put an end to the continuation of a mistake. This means that you are making a serious mistake and you have to stop making it. Otherwise, you’ll face very bitter consequences in order to finally stop doing what is bad for your life and your community.

Now you have to seriously think about your actions. What are you doing in life? Why did the unconscious mind send you this warning?

Your dreams protect your mental health and help you eliminate the dangerous influence of your wild nature into your human conscience. Your counselor is the wise unconscious mind that helps you correct your mistakes and find sound that lasts forever.